Five Mistakes to Avoid While Dating an Eastern European Woman
This issue will be interesting for every man who is going to find an Eastern European girl. Learn 5 most popular errors men make with russian brides. The first advice is the most important; others are of about the same value.
1. Giving her dollars. Don't give your money to a woman who you just met on Internet site. You should know that a straight lady would not ask; she has enough self-esteem. Besides, she has already lived for more than twenty years without you. Why would she need you now? Any Eastern European woman who asks you for money is only trying to deceive you. A former Soviet Union woman does not even consider you two to be in a serious relationship until you have seen one another in person! Would you give your cash to a girl from your country that you had just met? Remember about it. It is just not rational and can bring you trouble (and makes the girls consider it is simple and gives them reasons for the same behavior).
2. Not putting questions. You are looking for a life partner, not a girl to only spend the time. Russian women are serious (for the most part) and they expect the proper attitude. And one more thing, if you do not question to find out more about her, her family etc… she will soon figure out that you are playing games. Then she will leave you, or just see what she can get out of you! If you are seriously willing to make a family, you need to ask her many different questions! Not only put all kinds of questions, but ask them several times in different words, just to make sure if you get similar answers By the way it's a great way to protect yourself from a scam!
3. Sending her wrong photos. Do not give her photos of your house or other welfare measure. If you do, you will get the wrong type of lady. An honest former Soviet Union woman is more concerned about your soul than she is about your money. If you focus on your things, she will probably decide you are a shallow and not serious man. Concentrating on your attainments only will work on american women, the most superficial and windy women in the world! This is not America, you do not need to impress these ladies with a house and a car! Show them your personality, what you like to do, how you think and feel and you'll get a thankful wife.
4. Not being prepared seriously for a visit. Do you know that in order to bring her to your country as a fiancee, you must go to her country first? Yes, it is the only possible way she can get a visa to come to the USA. A former Soviet Union lady, if she is family oriented, will want to meet you. You must be prepared to travel to her country at some point in the future. A lady will generally give you about 6 months to tell her you will visit. Then a few more months get ready. Make her wait longer than this she will think you are a shallow and probably write to a man she would think is more reliable! Just be ready emotionally and monetarily.
5. Not having a backup plan. It's a huge mistake! If you eventually go to Russia or Ukraine, you never know what will happen. Be sure to get some unexpected results! No matter how many letters you have exchanged with your woman or how many times you talked to her on the phone, once you see her in reality, things will change. It's possible that you two look at each other and understand it is not going to happen. Your backup plan will help you in this case. And don't make a trip just for one lady (unless you have already met). Meet several. Also try to have good relations with at least one of the local agencies in the city you'll be in. Know their contact information. Then, if something unexpected happens, you will have a chance to contact another agency and meet other girls.
Well, that's it. Remember about these tips as you look for dating russian women and good luck!
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